24 [f4m] #UK blonde submissive looking for Dom
TLDR; curvy blonde submissive bimbo looking for a sweet Dom with a sadistic streak to own me and help further my bimbofication. Or to meet other bimbos.
This was saved in my drafts and I took a break from talking to anybody because it got too much and removed my previous posts, but I’m back again… 🫠 please don’t message me unless you’re genuine.
My messages do get very fully do please be patient, introduce yourself and where in the UK you’re from.
I’m looking for somebody around my age and at max 28, and in the UK. I do prefer a more playful and cheeky type of guy.
I am 24 years old currently living in the north of England. I’ve been into this lifestyle for a while now ( I am fairly inexperienced in the sense I’ve only had one long term physical partner) and curious to explore a TPE with a strict but sweet Dom who also has sadistic tendencies. I feel ready to meet somebody seriously, I do not use dating sites, I feel they’re quite artificial and built on physical attraction opposed to genuine deep attraction. Also being realistic about it, it’s unlikely I’d find any one kinky there. Ideally I am looking for something long term and genuine, eventually my plans with a partner is to build a life and family together ( so if that’s something you aren’t interested in please don’t reach out). In a partner I look for loyalty, emotional maturity and a good sense of humour. Also somebody who is into a bimbo. Essentially I look for my partner to be my best friend in life too.
As for myself, I am pretty shy until I’m comfortable with somebody. But once I’m comfortable I’m very playful and silly. I’m a very girly girl with dreams of becoming a perfect bimbo. I enjoy shopping, makeup, fashion and so on. I am an avid gym bunny and would also love a partner who takes care of themselves both fitness and diet wise. I am highly submissive, but I also have a bratty side and also a little side( this is 100% none sexual) but I lean heavily to a more slave type, I love to be devoted to my partner and have somebody to teach, guide and take care of me. Outwardly I’m just an average girl and those I have discussed this side of me with, don’t think I look the type ( is there even a “type”????). Looks wise I’m 5ft5 , long blonde hair, blue eyes, lip filler, I am on the curvier side I weigh about 13st8 but I’m also pretty lean due to going to the gym. I take pride in how I look and like fake nails, lashes etc. Whilst being submissive is a big part of my personality, I like to keep my daily life and kink interests separate I don’t like to boast or openly share it. Though I am open about wanting to be more fake looking. If we establish some trust I’d be happy to share photos of me.
As for a Dom, I’m looking for somebody within the age range of 24-28, who in day to day life is a genuinely good person (unfortunately I have met assholes who use the term Dom just to be actually toxic and abusive), and we can get on in a general capacity and have things in common outside of the dynamic. However, I look for somebody confident, who can give structure and stability both for me and for themselves. Somebody who has strong morals, is respectful and consistent. I like a Dom who is more into the mental aspect of domination not just physical, somebody who plays mind games, makes me feel truly submissive but still makes me feel precious and safe. I’d love a 24/7 TPE with traditional gender roles, but not to harsh where it feels unbearable. I do not do casual sex so in that regard I do look for commitment. I also am looking for monogamy.
As for my kinks I am into a lot, but the main things are mind games/manipulation, verbal degradation( more so slut or pathetic), some pain/impact like face slaps or being caned, clit torture ( so clamps, spanked, overstimulation) verbal humiliation, being made to cry, being made to feel dumb/inferior, bimbofication, forced orgasms/orgasm control and lots praise and cuddles and aftercare. Basically I like to be cherished and cared for, but used like I’m nothing. I just want to exist to be mindless, pretty and be used. I do have some more extreme kinks im curious about. Hard limits are anal,scat, knife play, needle play, blood, chemical play and anything that’s immoral or illegal.
If you’re interested please feel free to message me. Ideally I’d prefer if you’re male and in the UK, specifically up north but being southern or elsewhere isn’t a problem. Again I’m looking for monogamy. As mentioned I also have a little side where I age regress and like to colour and be cared for, this is strictly non sexual. I’m also just looking to connect with people in general and make new friends too. So even if you aren’t in the UK or you just want to say hello and get to know me in general I also welcome that too. Looks aren’t everything to me I do need a connection, but I am attracted to tall and manly looking men.
Thank you for reading 🩷
Posted Dec 4, 2025, 9:46 PM UTC · locked