I’m not here to chase subs. I’m here to enjoy my kink with those who actually value it.👸

When i first started, dommes said to make a post in every subreddit possible, to answer everyone to attract true subs. Some say to not even respond until they send, some say you need to answer or they will just move on but its all trial and error.. Either way I'm done posting to every subreddit possible, and trying to find subs and making numerous posts per day and giving time to those who haven't proved their worth even a second of it. If I get no subs who approach then so be it as I don't need them just enjoy the kink and the connections along the way. I really enjoyed this when I first started but now I end up spending over half my day making posts and talking to subs to let them "feel me out" or to see if I'm the domme for them, just to end up wasting my time with Fake subs or with guys who think you just want to talk and do this for free. Don't take this as me complaining or mad as I'm not and if your a domme who takes offense to this, im probably talking about you as the real dommes will know i am not speaking on them, just stating that I'm done doing it. I will make very few posts a day and if you want to be my sub then tribute to start and DM otherwise keep scrolling to find a different domme. I truly enjoy this kink and my part in this fetish but it really doesn't pay off when you have 1 mil "dommes" to few hundred true subs on here all constantly posting the same titles and captions or just nudes until its completely over saturated with people who just think its about getting easy money with no relationship or true dynamics that it really takes to have a successful sub/domme connection. If you want to just send to someone with no connection at all their are thousands of gold diggers on here that just want money and think it's a easy way to get it.(Which imo is ruining the subreddits and the fetish for those who actually put the time in and try to do it right) so find one and have fun. If you want to build a long lasting connection, have a domme who will play into your kinks and actually cares if you get what you need out of it or just have a true domme that actually enjoys doing this and goes to any length to keep both of us content, then reach out. Many people dont realize the time and effort that actually goes into be a findomme, its alot more than just asking for people to buy you stuff smh But the days of trying to draw them in through posts are over as I pretty much work a 8 hr shift on here to do it and is a waste of time as of late. Just wanted to vent and get this off my chest...Like it or not, It is what it is🤷‍♀️