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cocoquinnxo

help me pls 😭

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I need advice. I live in a country where FSSW is legal and really cheap.

My ads are priced higher than others (I don’t pay for upgrades). On the most popular site, I only get 2–5 inquiries a day, and 70–80 % are fantasy bookers who refuse screening or deposits.
Almost no escorts here ask for deposits, which is probably why clients don’t want to pay them.

Should I wait it out, lower my screening standards (I already dropped to deposit OR ID photo), or just lower my rates to match the other girls in my city?

(Context: I deleted all my ads a while ago and I’m restarting them now.)

Posted Dec 4, 2025, 9:52 PM UTC

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