Not seeking advice, decided to reconcile (42m) w wife (41f)

I posted a few times over a while. We are separated. She called police on me twice in a manic panic. She lied and said I was suicidal (was not) and got me in the asylum. Then they came back and arrested both of us. They wanted her to sign me over for 30 days and she said no, so they arrested her and then me.

What you have to understand is she was finding out she was bipolar (some type) with my help this year. Kindof blew up in our faces.

We arent going to prison or anything. Basically, the state tried to "force a divorce" on us. Put dual restraining orders on each after arrest.

We have been married 11 years and known each other for 18. We still have my job (she lost hers as a result of this). I am going to stay separated for a while til the court stuff clears, and she is ok with that.

We are both Christian and if this is the worst, then ok. We were in marriage therapy for 4 mos prior to it and so that kindof failed.