34 [F4F] Bicurious woman seeking an OA partner
Hi OA community!
It’s my first time putting myself out there on a forum like this, so please be gentl, I’m a little nervous about what to say!
So, the short version is I’m a married woman, but I've always had this strong, persistent bi-curious streak. To be honest, I just find that I click with women on a deeper level. Conversations feel more personal, more genuine, and just generally warmer and more friendly.
What I'm really hoping to find is someone in the exact same boat as me. Married to a man, but wanting to explore a connection with a woman. The dream would be to start totally casually as friends and just see where the chemistry takes us. I’m not looking to blow up my life or yours, the goal is just connection.
A little about me: I’m 34, about 5'8", and I try to stay fit and healthy. I’m a big Netflix binger, love listening to all kinds of music, and I feel happiest when I’m outside. I definitely lean toward the feminine side, I love getting my nails done.
About you: I’m hoping you’re kind, funny, and take good care of yourself. It would be great if you were around my height too, and most importantly, can keep a decent conversation going. Since we’re both busy and in committed situations, I don’t expect non-stop messages, we’ll figure out a rhythm that works.
A quick but important request: Guys, please don't reach out. And I’m specifically looking for other bi-curious women. This isn’t a slight against anyone; I just really need someone who understands the complexity of being in this particular situation.
Thank you
Posted Dec 4, 2025, 10:50 PM UTC