Poly Relationship + DINK jealousy = Great Tea

I’ll try to keep it short but this is a great story. I’m a bi married man to a bi woman and we are (were) in an open relationship with another married bi cis couple. We have all been friends like 12 years, involved romantically for 6. They have kids we are dinks - we don’t mind kids we just never wanted any.

Long story short; my wife and I had to break up with them because they became insanely jealous of our lifestyle over the years and blame us for their failing marriage. Mind you they’re the ones who opened their relationship first and invited us into this whole thing to spice things up because they had dead bedrooms for years. The other husband even admitted to us while he was drunk “your wife is so much tighter than mine I wish I had your life I hate my kids I hate my wife and my life” and at first we were aghast at all this like what are you saying? We tried to help but felt this is in need of professional help which they refuse to get. Then we learned the wife also doesn’t like us as much as we thought because “we have money and no kids and can just enjoy life”.

After months of disappointment and discussion we find out their resentment of our lifestyle built over the few years of my own marriage; basically they were upset I found another childfree to marry and our wealth and lifestyle exponentially grew better than theirs. It’s not like we didn’t share it with them, we actually wanted to be around them and be a big happy family even spent money on them (I know some of you rolling your eyes but hey this what floated our boat). It took a short time for them to throw away a 6 year relationship.

The final straw was the husband admitting to try and steal my wife (it’s a long pathetic story) because he felt like he was a better match and my wife -bless her lol- says to him “honey you never had a shot with me 1:1 I don’t want to be a mom I’m only here for the pegging”. He even begged and said he’d leave his kids and wife for her which only pissed off my wife more.

Then the other wife got involved and said we flaunted too much around them and that we should have grown up and had kids like them, no idea where that came from but that’s for a therapist not us. Why would we allow ourselves to be bogged down into misery like them?

The other couple plays the victim card at every turn and says we ruined their marriage and we pulled out our original contract (we’re those couple) that they initially started all of this so no we take no fault here. The husband begged and pleaded with us to not break up we were “his only reprieve from his hell of a life” he was sorry but we feel betrayed and said “we will look for another swinger couple, bye Felica”. We’re both disappointed and hurt but at least we have each other and dodged a bullet. Next time we swing it will be strictly someone without kids.

Hope you enjoy this bit of tea. Do not settle for parents just for fun, they tend to get jealous.