Few advice for those who are interested in Sharing & Caring

Thought of sharing these words with my friends who are trying to get into lifestyle, especially in the Stag/Vixen Lifestyle.

1. Don’t make it super sexual keep it sensual. Let her own her style.

Wearing revealing clothes isn’t everyone’s thing. My wife used to show minimal skin even in lifestyle parties and still bag the hottest dudes. She is someone who wants to be chased and admired, not to be presented or appear as starved for it.

2. Support her being independent

Teach her to drive if she doesn’t . Let her manage and make bigger decisions in life . Guide her and more importantly own her socially. Don’t be a faggot asking her to coverup infront of your friends and family and switch to a complete slut when you want. She is a human and has her own personality. My girl knows she can switch to a princes mode whenever she wants but she is capable of managing her shit.

3. Travel outside your city/country as often as you can so she is outside the environment that keeps reminding her of her social and religious duties. Consider hiring a nanny for your kids if possible.

4. Own your sexuality. Be open and tell her when and what you masturbate at. Just to make her realize that one can be vulnerable in front of their spouse. Bookmark the ones you think she will like and see together. Don’t go for hardcore sleazy ones. Look for romantic women-centric shots.

5. Make you sex the best thing she should look forward to. Treat her like a diva, give her the pleasure she deserves. This will help her feel that sex isn’t a duty but something she should enjoy too. My girl is a serial cummer 😌

6. Be handsy and touchy - especially when travelling, this tells her you are proud of her.

7. Don’t overstimulate about lifestyle. This often makes women feel the current sex isn’t good enough.

8. Listen to podcasts and ask her to listen to them to normalize swinger scenarios

9. Tell her how much you enjoyed when guys (decent, clean high quality good looking guys only) eye on your girl. Not every idiot on the street that look at her (tell her how she is out of their league)

10. Keep it consistent/ even after post nut clarity.

Enjoy!!