Sub Seeking Advice From Experienced Doms/Subs—Trust, Distance, and Growth

I am a 21F-year-old submissive, and I am currently involved with a 21M-year-old dominant. I want to explain my past for context. I’ve been in two previous relationships—one with someone two years younger and another with someone a year older. Both relationships lasted almost two years. I have also had a one-time hookup in the past.

My current dominant (“daddy”) is a virgin. I have been sexually active with my previous partners, but not with him. We met on an app and connected instantly because our BDSM preferences aligned. As we talked more, we discussed our limits, boundaries, and kinks, and I eventually chose to be his submissive.

However, when our dynamic began, I was still in a relationship with my then-boyfriend. Because of that, I ended up betraying both my boyfriend’s trust and my dominant’s trust. My dominant also lives in another state, so our connection is long-distance. I have now broken up with my boyfriend, and I want to improve myself.

I want suggestions on: • how to be a good submissive for him, • how to handle the long-distance dynamic, • how I can rebuild his trust, • and what advice you would give to him as a dominant.

I also want to know whether our dynamic seems healthy or whether it could be toxic. I would really appreciate your guidance. <3