25 [M4F] Madrid/Spain — Any bookworms?
Hello there! I am spanish guy currently living in Madrid who is searching for an educated girl to chat with. If you are in this subreddit, you might be looking for a hot and direct conversation, but I have recently learned that that does not satisfy me that much. Yes, having a nice sexting session feels awesome, but there is something lacking to it: tension. The tension is something that must be built up, not just a one-liner expressing the joy from seeing a dirty pic. When there is a connection and the other person feels real and human, the moment in which the chat becomes sexy is just so much good.
This might not be something for every girl to comes here, but I am looking for a nice and calm chat. I prefer to hold a decent conversation first, and only involve sexual topics when the moment feels actually right. So yeah, I want a nice old wholesome chat: tell me about your day, about your favourite things to do outside. I would really love to learn about your cultural passions: music, literature, art. I am very fond of these topics, and would love to hear your opinion in theory of aesthetics, poetics and many more! I am a physicist specialized in Nanophysics, so science-gals are more than welcome too!
The first thing I would like my chat partner to be is educated. Someone who writes properly and has some interest in polishing her expression and showing pulchritude. English is not my mother tongue, but I will try to live up to the expectations as well. In this sense, I would love to chat with another spanish-speaking person, but not only that: french and russian speakers are also welcome! I do not speak these languages (I barely know some french, and have no idea of russian) but I am very interested in their literatures.
Secondly, I would rather have a conversation partner who is somewhat active. I have a job and a life, but I like chatting, and I try to respond to messages as quick as I can, so I would prefer to chat with someone who replies frequently. For this reason, it might be better for you if you are in a similar timezone to mine (UTC+1), but you can totally hit me up if you feel like you can follow a fluent conversation anyway.
Lastly, I am not closed to older ladies, but I am usually more attracted to girls around my age. I believe that physical attraction is also important, so please, do not reach out if you do not feel comfortable sharing pics of yourself (not immediately, but when it feels right). I am tanned and have hispanic features, and, in contrast I prefer paler girls. I have a huge thing with pretty eyes, so please, hit me up if you like to boast about them, specially clear blue or green! I am 5'8'' tall and have a bulky but sporty type of body with wide shoulders and big chest. I have no problem with sharing a picture of myself if you want to see me.
That was all; I am sorry for the long post, but I think that this way it might reach the adequate people. If you are intrigued or want to give it a try, send me a message and let's chat on private!
Posted Dec 5, 2025, 3:29 PM UTC · locked