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28 [r4f] #Utah; or #Online seeking conversation and connection

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Heyo! If you're a cool girl with great music taste and a soft spot for creative chaotic good energy, keep reading. Extra bonus if you're in Utah and we can eventually exist in the same physical space, or if you ever say "neato.".

I identify as a masc-presenting nonbinary male. It’s important to me personally, but I’m not expecting it to be a big deal for anyone else. I crochet, make amateur music, game, and fall into Wikipedia rabbit holes. When I'm not doing any of that, I'm probably outside aura farming somewhere, or planting flowers. I was diagnosed with a personality disorder this year and I've started an intensive treatment program. I'm also ADD, so my brain pretty much operates like a pinball machine in a glitter factory! I'm kind, genuine, honest, and respectful. I'm quiet at first while I figure out how much of my Big Energy you can handle. Spoiler: it's not that intense, just goofy.

I'm also a huge cartoon geek. If it ever aired on Nickelodeon or Cartoon Network, there's a good chance I've watched it or at least have opinions about it.

Music runs my life. I grew up on pop punk and alternative. Lately I'm into indie pop, rock, funk, and pop grunge. Some favorites are Hippo Campus, The Main Squeeze, Delicate Steve, Everclear, and Gorillaz. I play guitar and used to play a handful of other instruments too.

What I want: A fun, easy conversation that might grow into something real. I'm not opposed to a little flirty or spicy texting if we click, but I'm mostly looking for a genuine connection. Let's trade songs, talk about the artists we love, and see where things go. Ideally, this could turn into something long term. I'm flexible with monogamy and ENM, so long haired freaky people are absolutely encouraged to apply. I wonder if that joke is even relevant for my own age.

What I don't want: A one day texting fling. If you're cool with chatting for at least a few days, we're good. I know chemistry isn't guaranteed, but I'd like a little consistency. If you made it this far, message me with your current favorite song and I'll send one back. 🎧✨

Posted Dec 6, 2025, 4:55 PM UTC

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