29 [M4F] #New York City #Online - Let's uplift each other and build an empire into the new year

If we end up serious I'm open to relocating depending on the place mostly US/Europe.

If this is a bit too long of a read I'll try to make a super abridged version another time

Me: 165 pounds 5'10 white and single. Appreciator of straightforward people. If you end up liking me you can let me know, then we can work from there. I do get a bit nervous and shy with new people but I will be endlessly curious about you. Humor and emotional availability are my defining strengths. A few other things I enjoy are helping people with their problems and watching shows/share memes/find new hobbies you'd like to share/talk about philosophical stuff/game/hang out with them. I treat every new day as a chance to grow and develop into someone you yourself could obsess over.

How I'd describe my personality & how I strive to be: Laid back but willing to get serious when it matters, meticulous; I like to plan things out, approachable, considerate, self aware, reasonable, open minded, cautious but a risk taker when it makes sense. I do appreciate the importance of compromising and do understand how tiring it can be to negotiate for every small thing. I don't take this particularly seriously but out of curiosity I've taken those personality test several times over the years and have almost always gotten infj. I did say before that I am laid back but also enjoy being competitive from time to time whether it be a sport or game, however I do make sure to never be a sore loser because of how lame that is and I hate when people overreact for stuff like that when it doesn't even matter, it's not like its the world cup or even a smaller scale equivalent.

My main desired priority is to establish a connection with someone preferably from a Balkan culture if the intent is long term. I am very long term family + marriage minded and don't want to play any games so I would prefer to find someone who takes this seriously. I do want to keep the pace of our development realistic but not too slow either. I don't have a need to call you by any titles but I am comfortable with it if you happen to want me to. I do want just a bit of direction and help getting myself established as a person but otherwise I'd like to neatly pivot the both of us into planning for a long term future with a big family in a reasonable timeframe.

I would appreciate you being: Between 22-34. I prefer people who like to talk a lot.

If I'm not able to find exactly what I am looking for here I am open to other forms of connections. While I'm open minded I want to know if we like each other as people and if our end goals align properly. if I had to pick a specific one I would prefer a lifelong one with someone preferably but I am also open to a somewhat long term otherwise or even a friendship. A connection where we mutually uplift one another into more responsible and emotionally mature individuals would be ideal.

Some goals I have: I do want to find a stable work from home job eventually specifically so I can be flexible on where I could end up settling down in the future, I'm not saying I need to go all over the world to find that place but a nice place it obviously needs to be. I have some very well thought out business related ideas that are pretty feasible in case that is not a feasible solution. I do want my own family relatively soon. I'd be willing to take the majority of the responsibility for those who wouldn't be able to handle it due to work/stress. I'd like to work on getting a six pack, after having recently reaching my goal weight after my weight loss journey, that seems like the next logical step.

*I have a few more goals but listing them makes the post way too long.

I am a homebody and would be willing to go out more if I had someone to go to places with. If you are a homebody yourself I don't mind just chilling with you or we could go to a cozy third place.

I wont be intimidated if you happen to be ridiculously smart, I'd see you as an ideal to strive for and look up to. I'd like if you could also sometimes reassure me as things feel tough sometimes but of course I'll do the same for you. I do like talking but sometimes struggle finding topics to talk about when I meet someone (for the first few days). I'll still respond to you as soon as I can and probably be the one who ends up talking more once all the awkwardness goes away. Would like if you're maybe into gaming or interested in watching something together.

Please tell me your age, general location and maybe something about your culture and/or background I'd really like to hear it. I'm a bit particular for what I'm looking for depending on who you are and what you yourself are looking for so let's help each other figure out what's best for us. If you are too nervous to share that then you could tell me whatever you're comfortable sharing or even just something you've been obsessed with lately.

Just keep in mind that I am monogamous, straight, and masculine. I am comfortable with who I am and don't really judge others for what they are.