26F - certain situations over few months are making me question whether I should marry my bf or not

I’m in a 6+years relationship with my boyfriend. We are planning to get married coming Feb 2026. Since our marriage got fixed, there has been alot of chaos and fights. Listing out a few incidents that have happened over 4-5 months. So we locked in on a venue. Mind you the FIL was being very pushy about booking a venue asap, my parents and i being non confrontational didn’t push back on this. Next day I changed my mind. I conveyed this to my boyfriend and his reply was but you liked it yesterday. I was like but I changed my mind. He then starts asking me the problems with the venue, I list them - dirty washrooms, cheap interior, bad food. He tried to fix these by saying we will discuss these with the owner, higher a new decorator etc. All while I’m pushing ki lets change the venue to this he replies “yaar parents ko bhi pasand aaya tha ab tum aakar bol rahi ho acha nahi lag raha”. This just shattered my heart - i feel he is more interested in appeasing to our parents and not listening to me. The venue owner is selling my boyf anything and he is buying it. I showed him google reviews of people saying the owner doesn’t deliver on promises and I’m feeling skeptical about it.

His BIL and SIL came to city and we went out on lunch. So we reached near metro and my brother was asking ki where is the metro, my boyfriend seemed least interested and agreed without asking that i could use foot over bridge to reach metro, mind you i was in heels. His brother had to literally force my boyf to walk me down to metro????

Today, we went to buy a flat and we were negotiating the price with builder and property dealer. My boyf is in usa currently hence his father came. The property dealer instead of fighting from our side, started arguing with us that they are giving the correct price. The tone in which he was talking was also bad. Mind you, this property dealer is FIL’s old society’s neighbour or something. My dad told him I don’t trust you the way you are dealing with us. The FIL jumps and starts defending the property dealer with the statement “oh I trust you, you are like family” ?????

Some other incidents were my in laws being weird while gold shopping - in car rides the constant discussion was gold prices have risen so much now. No body is forcing them to buy me gold, why are you making me feel bad about buying gold then?

Should I go ahead with this marriage?

TDLR - bf not hearing my concerns instead fixed on fixing them, not willing to drop me till metro even though im in heels, fil publicly defending someone being disrespectful towards my father.