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gnarlidrum

How to *Not* Get Danced On as a Man at the Club

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I feel like I’m one of the few guys who does NOT wanna get danced on when I’m out unless it’s a chick I know, be it a friend, known hookup or partner. Someone I’m comfy with.

I present very invitingly; dress classy and fun, and my crew is mostly women so I feel I give the appearance of being trustworthy and like a good time to other women.

Despite this I’m just tryna feel good, move a little and chill. Not get grinded on by BBLs. I love vibing new people though who are on the same wavelength. Does this just mean I need to avoid certain clubs or is there some sort of strategy to avoid the grind?

Posted Dec 6, 2025, 6:16 PM UTC

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