Does anybody else feel like this? I can’t date someone with kids 🥲

Does anybody else want to find a partner that has no children and ties to exes? Idk if how my family dynamic plays a huge part in what I want my family to look like but I honestly just can’t find it in me to date someone with a child and baby mama lol. Like the fact the two of them have to still be in each other’s lives and basically I have to move in a way that’s not disrespectful to the child mother is just tooooo much for me lol. Maybe I’m a jealous selfish person but I want to be the only one with kids with my partner if I ever get one. It’s just so discouraging cause everywhere you look a guy has a kid or two 😭 I cantttttt please tell me what I’m feeling is normal cause I honestly can’t comprehend how people do it 😭😅