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I just need to rant and hear some opinions.
So, me and my girlfriend have been in a long-distance relationship for the past two years. We weren't on good terms for a few months, and at one point she said she wanted to break up because I “deserve better” and she thinks she’s not a good person.

She’s not very expressive, and I have more of an anxious attachment style, so sometimes the lack of expression hurts. I really wish she would show her feelings more, but I’ve always accepted that this is just how she is. I told her I just want her, and that she doesn’t have to leave, we can fix things. That conversation was about a month ago.

Since then, things have slowly been improving. The dry communication was getting better. She even asked if I was scared to talk to her, like I might mess something up. I told her, honestly, yeah, kind of. She said she wants me to feel free again like I used to. But the dry phases always get in my head and make me feel like I’m ruining things.

Today I tried to bring up something that bothers me, and she told me I was overreacting and didn’t need to respond like that. And now I don’t even know, maybe something is wrong with me. I really want things to work with her, and I know she wants it too, but sometimes it feels like we’re completely different people,
Idk. I just want her. I just needed to rant this out.

Posted Dec 6, 2025, 6:22 PM UTC

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