61[M4F] #Oklahoma - Where are the REAL younger submissive females who want to be owned and taken care of by an older experienced Dominant for IRL, only serious need apply…

I’m a 61-year-old Daddy Dominant from NE Oklahoma, Again I’m 61. First and foremost I don’t play silly games as most on here. I’m clean, no diseases ever and I have a Dad-bod (told that for my age by littles/ middles…pic on profile). with a lifetime of experience in some type of Ds dynamics always with huge AgeGap kink for the past 30 + years. This has never been a game or a passing interest—it’s who I am. I hope you take the time to read this post and other posts on my profile. I’ve always loved the kink lifestyle, including the friendship and acquaintances I have developed through the years, it’s like a family in itself. I was raised in a kink community and household. I My father was an Authoritarian Dominant and a biker in a club and a patch holder until he passed, my mother was one of his many submissive women. I will bring unwavering dedication, control, and care to every submissive connection whether in a dynamic or not. I’ve been in 3 sexual DDlg in the past 35+ years… I’m an open book you can ask why I’m not in a dynamic now? I have nothing to hide and transparent from the start. I don’t ever play games as I mentioned and seriously looking for a IRL submissive who wants to work toward TPE, yes even outside the bedroom. I’m looking for a submissive little girl to care for. If you’re not serious and think you can play games and fuck with my head… try me. I know what I’m looking for in a submissive partner… I won’t stay chatting with you for more than 3 or 4 weeks without meeting in person. You ask for money or you’re just catfishing me, I will see through it. If you’re serious and want someone to take care of you and keep you safe and secure then contact me, let’s talk. Ask what I offer? I’m willing to take any experience sub type as a partner, we can negotiate. No need to call me Sir or Daddy to start with because I haven’t earned your submission, yes I’m old school and still have a mentor I confide in. I don’t wear my Dominance on my sleeve. So please let’s just chat and see where things go, I never put expectations on anyone I meet in person or online. I’m a gentleman first, a Daddy and a caregiver if you take the time to chat with me. I was living in the Pacific Northwest and moved back to Oklahoma after a 38 year absence from my family home. As some of you know kink in the Portland and Seattle area is very open, welcoming and accepting kink community. Moving back to a very conservative state and around religious fanatics has been tough but I recently (more than a year) ended a 4 year relationship she was 17 when we.met accidentally online and she was very dishonest about her age to start with. There was nothing sexual in the start as I was her mentor. To make a long story shorter, she moved into my household after her 18th bday. She was a very immature, manipulative, inexperienced and very selfish black little girl who ended up being very violent toward me and family members with major mental health issues, she was from Chicago. Did I learn anything, ask me? My previous 2 dynamics, one was with a mixed race mother with 4 children who I raised as my own… we were together for almost 10 years and she couldn’t leave her ex husband (father to her children) and ended up being his caregiver after a life changing accident that left him mentally challenged. My other was with someone very special, we were together for 20 years, we lost her to breast cancer in 2009 I never thought I would be older and without a little girl (submissive) to take of and love. Being a good Daddy is natural and what I love and a good one with decades of kink experience. I won’t lie I do have a huge AgeGap kink, don’t judge me but my experience in kink and being a Daddy Dominant has been very diverse. I will protect you and keep you safe and secure in my household…as I mentioned before, I’m old school and want to always earn your submission. By the way I’m monogamous 100% and once I commit I am dedicated to taking care of you and making you happy and feeling loved each and everyday we’re together. I will spoil you with gifts, new stuffies and clothes…I love to travel when I find time away from my nationwide recording and audio video business I started 35 years ago. You can always travel with me when I do business. If you drive it’s a huge plus if not I have the patience to teach you…lol

As a Dominant, I blend a nurturing warmth with a firm authority. I’m here to guide, protect, and push you to your edges—whether that’s through gentle encouragement, negotiation or intense play, this could include commanding discipline. My focus is building a dynamic grounded in trust, raw honesty, and mutual growth. Hoping you always feel safe to surrender and explore your deepest desires and fantasies. We set goals. I’ll hold you accountable—always self-care, boundaries, growth—and shape you into the natural submissive you’re meant to be, emotionally, physically, mentally, and spiritually. Whether you need someone to listen, a steady support person to lean on or a forceful Daddy push to break through, I’m ready to meet your needs. Whether you have limited or no experience in any type of D/s dynamics. I will teach and train you to be the best submissive female possible, I will apologize now but I am not bi so I only work with women and couldn’t give a trans woman what she needed in my household but I always entertain an open conversation with anyone who is interested in open and truthful conversation. My experience in Kink is diverse as I mentioned above but I do not know everything and not afraid to say that. What I love about kink, you can be in kink for a lifetime and there’s still so much to learn. That’s why I still actively attend national kink convention and conferences. Where I live it has been difficult to find any type of munch here locally in Eastern Oklahoma. If some reads this and has any information on open groups or munches please feel free to correct me?

About Me: Im an very active, older, highly experienced Dominant personality. I’m educated and Sapiosexual with two grad degrees (MPA and MPH). As I said before… I was raised in a D/s household. Yes my father was a Dominant and biker in the leather community and my mentor in the lifestyle until he passed, I still have friends on the West Coast who I still remain in contact with. I have a very good life with supportive parents and a very large family. My mother was a true submissive woman in a traditional role1950s and 1960’’s household. I’ve been fortunate to have had 2 very good submissive partners over a 30+ year in kink and a DD/lg or they seemed to end up as a Daddy/daughter experience. I’m adaptable, grounded, and thrive on crafting dynamics as unique as the submissive female I am working with. You will learn about your submission and always listened to. I will never demand your submission as many Dominants do. I will teach you and train you to what I’m looking for in a submissive partner, this would include to write scenes to fulfill your sexual desires and fantasies. Like I said I live in a very rural lake front community, it’s very private where you could be in little space for days if you wanted or you could be naked for days and long periods of time in sub-space, this depends on your needs and experience. I balance intensity with curiosity, and I’m eager to share more about my passions as we connect. I don’t ghost and I appreciate you don’t either as communication between us is only building an unwavering trust and bond. Ghosting is so childish and such a waste of time. Pics and much much more on profile…just ask anything, I have nothing to hide, so no question is off limit and I expect the same from you but will always be cautious of your experience and past experiences, especially around trauma. Here’s what I offer to start with. In the start of IRL I don’t expect you to have any type of strong feelings, emotional connection or attachment for me…I will provide you with your own private space (furnished bed room) to decorate and always have as your own. what I do know with many years of experience no two dynamics are ever the same…as much as Dominants or what I call “Want to be Dominants” online who just want to fuck you and conquer your heart then kick you to the curb…then to the next one to conquer. I know not everyone is like that, because I know hundreds of kinksters who I interact with annually at workshops, conferences and conventions. You have two personalities differences of experience and body types in any relationship, NO TWO PERSONALITIES ARE EVER THE SAME.

Excuse the long post but I want you to know some things about me before we converse… mention the word 💜Purple- we will weed out the scammers and B.S. quickly. **If anyone reads this and they know where a good and friendly munch is in eastern Oklahoma, please let me know, even if you want to help start one…I would love to meet like minded-kinksters locally since I’m fairly new to a very conservative and highly religious Eastern Oklahoma where I was born and raised. By the way please be transparent including open and honest from the start, it goes a long ways with me. Thank you for your time in reading my post. If you’re not interested please enjoy the holidays and good luck on your journey to find a REAL Dominant online.