He gave me gonorrhea

I tested positive yesterday and was able to get a shot and get it fixed up immediately but boy oh boy, i got IN HIS ASS. Im seeing a lot of old reddit discussions about this topic saying to tell him with the “blameless approach”. A man can put your health at risk and you have to be nice about it and NOT blame him? Personally, I think tf not. Especially when thats the only partner youve been with for years? Not only that, but i also egged his house and car. I dont think i did enough to be quite frank.