I [22M] want a serious long term relationship. I want love, romance and intimacy!
I know what I want but idk how to get there. Would appreciate some advice please.
Initially I was confused but now I have a clear image of what I want. I want to have a genuine/deep connection with someone. I want love, I want romance, I want to feel loved, cared for and wanted and I promise to do the same for my partner. I genuinely want a serious long term relationship. I also want intimacy. I want physical affection. I want to have that one person I have a bond with, someone i can talk to about anything, someone who shares details or their life with me, someone I can open up to, someone who makes me want to be a better version of myself, someone I can spend the rest of my life with.
I'm willing to do whatever it takes to get there. I'm willing to put in all the efforts that are required I just don't know where to start or what to do. I have been working on myself and it has helped slightly. I reduced my screen time by a significant amount, I am reading books, going out to cycle, gonna bit the gym soon as well, but idk what else to do. Some genuine help and advice would be appreciated.
Posted Dec 6, 2025, 6:23 PM UTC