Location, location, location

Advice

Background: I’m an medical doctor age 30. Have not spent time dating because I was chasing this advanced degree not sure why I did this 😂.

At 28, I shifted my mindset and realized that marriage is more important than my career. Unfortunately, I am geographically restricted meaning I’m not around men who I culturally can marry (west African). I am planning on moving because the location I’m in, just doesn’t have men that I’m looking for. Does anyone have advice on good states to move to, where statistically I could find this cultural specification and they are high earners? Even though I’ll probably leave the medical field, I’ll probably go into a field that makes as much, so I’m still a high earner myself, I just want someone who can match me.

Posted Dec 6, 2025, 6:23 PM UTC

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