My daughter told me I'm a big girl

I am so, so glad this happened to you! I am so, so sorry!

My daughter (10) told me she's a big girl, and I'm the one who keeps telling her to smile and laugh and tell everyone she is a girl. The more I tell her, the more she's a girl.

I don't know why I'm telling my daughter about it, but I wanted to share with someone else. She is a very smart girl. I wish she had been taught to smile and laugh. I wish she had been taught to tell everyone she is a girl, even though she is a boy, because she might one day. It really helps her.

Please be kind to yourself, and please don't tell her that she's a girl. Don't make her feel bad for being a girl. You deserve better.

Edit: added her parents