45 [M4F] A secret friend who fits nicely in my front pocket

I am a fit 45 year old guy in a marriage that’s unhappy, I’m running on empty, and my bedroom is so dead you might as well order the headstone. I am looking to find a friend to connect, talk, and where we can share potentially some amazing benefits.

Just to be upfront, I may likely become single in the next year - I don’t think I can stay in this relationship much longer. However, I am not looking to change your situation or for you to change mine. I just want to enjoy life, feel craved, and remember what it’s like to be touched and kissed again. I have had affairs before I know the drill and keeping thing on the down low.

For fun, I enjoy being active, which often means lifting, hiking, jogging, cycling, or swimming. I also enjoy scuba diving and mountain climbing both things you can’t do in the Midwest but something I’d travel to go do. I like to think I’m pretty easy going, relaxed, always with a smile, and you might catch a hint of my NY accent.

I would love to connect with you! I really don’t care about distance, I travel often for work so it’s easy for me.