I think we need to have specific guidelines on here about what is and isn’t hotwifing

I’m not blaming the mods they have a thankless task on here and they do a great job keeping the spam out, it’s about the only nsfw sub on here without spam.

But I made a post about having sex with another man on my anniversary or my birthday and it was deleted for being the c word but then everyday I see posts on here about clean up and even of the husband/boyfriend giving the other man oral and when I say that’s c word I get downvoted. Or you’ll have other couples on here talking about partner swapping which is obviously swinging not hotwifing and again if you point it out you get downvoted for it.

I know it’s quite a fluid lifestyle but if having birthday sex with another man is the c word then surely clean up is.