My boyfriend(33m) broke up with me as a "prank"
So, today my(29 f)boyfriend of almost 2 years broke up with me...through text.
A little back story we've been having a rough 4ish days, I have a lot going on in my person life right now that doesn't have anything to do with him and I've made sure he knows what it's about and that him and I are okay and he was pretty much the only good thing right now and it seems that he took that as a cue to also make things rough on me on his end as well. He's always had a bad habit of constantly accusing me of doing things I'm not doing and haven't done cheating, lying, etc. and I've attempted to talk to him about it and he will stop for a bit then do it again, talking about my feelings is a no go in this relationship but that's not what this is about. Also worth mentioning we are on the phone 24/7 like while he's at work, while we sleep, like absolutely 24/7, so I don't even have time to do anything he is accusing me of.
So on to today, everything was fine I woke up and he had overslept so I hung up our existing call and called him back to wake him up and he gets up gets ready for work and is driving himself and his 2 nephews to work(they work at the same place) so I am on with him and the audio cuts out and the call ends. That's fine Snapchat calling is dumb sometimes, call back so I don't get fussed at, no audio at all then about 2 min in the call ends, I'm like well maybe he can't hear me either and I call back still no audio (I'm texting him telling him the entire time what's going on) so I end up hanging up this time and Im thinking he just doesn't want to be on the phone or something so I'm like okay he will call back when he's ready. He calls back and insists that the last call was hung up after one ring (if a call isn't answered on Snapchat it shows as missed call.) I assure him it was answered but still no audio and I tell him that the call was on 50 seconds and I explained about how if it wasn't it would say missed. He starts on me saying I let someone in my house and that's why and I tell him "hey, I really can't right today, we've been doing this for 4 days now, if you continue to talk to me that way I'm not going to stay on this phone call and we can talk when you feel better" and he acts weird about it (not unusual he doesn't like boundaries) and he ends up messaging me some of the usual accusatory statements and breaks up with me. He first stood by it and when I tried to talk with him about it and try to understand he messaged back and said "I already said it's done. Like why are you writing all this?" So I was like okay and left it alone. I took that as he wanted to be left alone so I wanted to respect it. I left it alone, he gave me a PS5 not very long ago and asked for it back so I told him I'd drop it off in his vehicle at work today. Then he starts calling me back to back to back to back and i didn't answer any until he messaged and asked me to answer so I answered thinking he was going to apologize or at least try to talk to me about it. I was wrong, he just decided to fuss at me and ask me who I'm cheating on him with. So I'll admit It upset me because he just broke my heart and I hung up, because obviously I thought that was bs. So he starts texting me a ton and I remind him he broke up with me, he claims he didn't, then he he is back and forth between he loves me and only wants me, I'm a cheater and a liar, and it was a joke/prank to see if I actually care and obviously I don't because I'm not just giving in and ignoring the fact that all that just happened. All this while calling me back to back on different phone numbers, Snapchat, and messenger. I text him and tell him I'll bring the PS5 as soon as my daughter and I finish the movie we started last night it only had around 30min left at that point and he still continues to call and text giving me emotional whiplash some more. Says if I don't bring back the PS5 he will report it stolen(I have no interest in keeping it I don't even really use it) and I'm trying to get my kids ready to go 9f and 6m and grab everything I have to take back to him and walk out of my apt and forgot the car keys, my purse, and the house keys. Unfortunately my apt doors lock automatically. So I'm stuck outside with 2 kids, PS5, a computer monitor, and a phone that won't stop ringing. My mom lives with me and works nights so I try to call her and wake her up to let me in and she eventually does. So I get the keys, my purse, and apologize to my mom and explain what happened. Then I leave with my babies to take his stuff to his job. He comes out, fusses at me, I honestly just grab the stuff and just walk to the car, not saying a word, and I get back in my vehicle while he complains I won't even hug him. Calls me the entire way home. I message him and explain that if that was a joke or not it hurt and I didn't understand, he's telling me I'm just hurting myself, then does his emotional whiplash of love, hate, love, hate, pity party, beg, hate, love. I explained the way I felt and I told him I didn't want to argue over this anymore because I didn't feel like it was getting anywhere. I was met with "enjoy being a w...." "S..." "That's all you will ever be you will never be happy" "all you do is lie and cheat" and some other things about moving on and being happy without me and other things to try to hurt me. So that's where I'm at right now, the calls and texts finally stopped for now. I'm just kinda sitting here mind blown. I'm sorry if it was all jumbled up and long but nice to get off my chest.
Posted Dec 6, 2025, 6:26 PM UTC