Over people

Using the excuse of being to busy is a cop out and a means to a way of giving room for another to leave due to a lack of reciprocal affection and attention. Giving but not receiving is torture. Its not selfish to leave nor is it ones fault for leaving after everything is said and done. People choose to not reciprocate for whatever reason it may be and then automatically assume their victims in it all when it reality they were in the wrong for causing a drift. I think I should just start doing that more often with people and just give the same treatment back but I would feel to much guilt on my end throwing blows back.Im just way past coming back to broken things anymore and pouring into others cups all because they feen for it and cant do without. Maturing is more crucial to my development than going back to things that are not healthy and people that have hurt me no matter how much pain I may feel or not. I hate having to stunt my development just because I assume someone has changed for the better only for it to not be true and get wounded even more. Yesi understand other adults get busy but at what point does it become an excuse rather than excusable.