Healing from the one woman cult

I am entering a new phase in my growth from a horrid and traumatizing experience. I’m skipping the details to just get to what I want to share. For a very long time, I knew intellectually that I was harmed, exploited and manipulated. But yet I still missed this woman who claimed we had a special connection ruin, that I was a unique client to her, that our relationships meant the world to her and on and on. I am finally feeling what I have known. Like I don’t wake up wondering if she ever cared about or was a business project. My body and heart quickly can dismiss the feelings of sadness and longing and the thoughts of “why this” and “how did I get in this mess?” And “why do I still care?” And I can recognize it was huge betrayal of trust, she’s not a person who matters in my life anymore, and the topic doesn’t need any more analysis. A conclusion has been made: she’s a predator who has so many issues. My mind can tell my body that and believe it. In the past, I intellectually knew this, but I didn’t believe it or something. I had to rethink it all to check on all the thoughts, actions, feelings, behaviors and words exchanged between us. Now I’m Working on getting the energy out of my body. Trying to release the remaining remnants of her tangles from my nervous system. I think this is trauma recovery. Your thoughts? Are there enough of us that were affected emotionally by a coach to form a support group?

Posted Dec 6, 2025, 6:31 PM UTC

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