Apparently my whole workplace has labelled me "honophobic"
So there's been coke confrontations between me and some gay guys at my work. 1st one tried putting his hand on mine I a suggestive way so I've been cold with him ever since. 2nd on literally lied to my face twice about work and most people understand he's a liar. There's a lot of them at my work tbh. Anyway I don't hate gay people l, I get a long with many of them. But I do see a pattern and it's that a lot of gay guys have personalities and character traits that I just ... don't like. I find the over the top fake feminine and overly sexualising stuff just super cringe and lacking in authentic expression. (They literally twerk on eachother at Work). Anyway idc what people call me but as a free person aren't I aloud to not like these traits in people? Like am I supposed to pretend I like people just because of their sexuality? I don't care who turns you on. But if I don't like you.. thats that. It feels like the "homophobic" label is just a cope because they don't want to accept that maybe I don't like them because of other reasons. AITH?
Posted Dec 7, 2025, 4:47 AM UTC