How was the avoidant's memory?

Towards the last few messages the FA and I sent each other, it seemed like he had forgotten everything that I ever shared about how I was feeling in the relationship. He was puzzled as to why I was withdrawing and shifting away and confused by my actions. I was updating him with my feelings in real time as my emotions were changing so it's puzzling to me that he would be so puzzled. It feels as if to him, all the past does not register in his mind and he does not see the continuity of the relationship from the past to the present.

Did any of you experience this kind of selective memory?