I'm Kelly Price Tired! 🫩

I've been dating my gf, Jay, for almost a year now (it'll be a year next week!) and it's been... rough to say the least. In my gf's best friend group, 2 out of the 3 friends don't like me and haven't liked me since I first met them. The two girls, we'll just call them Deja and Devon, barely acknowledge my existence when I'm around my gf and haven't made any effort to get to know me. They always try to start petty arguments with me, accuse me of being with my gf for the wrong reasons, all sorts of stupid shit. For example, they accused me of being a bad gf when I couldn't go to one of Jay's events bc I had to work. She has these events once of month and I had been to six of them.

Another example is on my gf's birthday, she told her friends that she was moving because she got a promotion. Deja and Devon jumped to the conclusion that she was moving for me since her new job is in the same city where I live, completely ignoring the promotion part and that I'm isolating her from her friends and family. Again, they said all this while my Jay wasn't around.

Last week, Jay took me to her friend's bday party (different friend group) and the vibe was just weird. People were whispering as soon as we walked in. I tried making conversation with people, no one really wanted to talk to me but they talked to Jay. I had only met the birthday boy once but he talked to me a little bit and thanked me for coming. I'm cool with her family, they love me but for two different friend groups not to like me is weird right? How do I talk to my gf about this?