Parents forcing a very bad religious institution instead of a good university
Hi, im a teenager living in bangalore. to be precise im 17
and gonna turn 18 in January. im studying in 12th rn and I plan to study bba after this. my parents are typical orthodox Muslim parents, and they plan to send me to some religious hostel thingy to study. I kept trying to tell them no, I dont wanna study there, I also mentioned about on campus recruitments and placements, they were speechless and dont give two fucks about my future. my mom thinks im a rebellious kid. my dad lives out of country w his other family and he's a businessman. ik its shocking to think that a businessman wouldnt give a fuck about his daughters education, since he must have all the knowledge about this field but no he doesn't give a fuck about any of my opinions and he does not care about his family here. my mom manipulated dad to ship me away there cause she hates me, and ofc my dad listened because atp he just wants to get rid of his kids here. my mom, she beats me up till this day, slut shames me because of the clothes that I wear (not revealing, just a full sleeve top and jeans), and once, while beating me up she said these exact words "now you see how im gonna ruin your life" and proceeded w manipulating my dad to put me in some madrasah college type thing. she manipulates everyone to think that im a bitchy kid and its just me I have 3 little siblings, and she dosent hate them as much she hates me. you might be wondering why and so did the 8th grade me and i asked her, her response was "because you look like your dad the most". she strives to fuck my life up, my sister has asked her to consider going to therapy but she says the one that needs therapy is me. Im in my college's fashion team and got something around 2k from our college's founder, when she got to know about it she took all of my money i got and beat me up and attacked my face saying "this face is getting you places and i wanna ruin it". I have considered running away after I write my boards, ive saved up some money but i dont think its enough to pay off college fee, maybe enough to live in a pg for 6 months. I just wanna go to a normal university and live and theyre not letting me. ive talked to dad about this saying I would study about religion side by side w university and he said no. if youve got any advice or any tiny job that would help me w making money please let me know, im desperate at this point and life is hell here. I just wanna get out of here but idk how to
The college they plan on putting me is called shaheen institutions btw. Most of the reviews are bad. Kids get diseases and stuff going there.
Posted Dec 7, 2025, 4:51 AM UTC