32 [M4F] #North Carolina #Charlotte - Submissive nerd looking for a substantial woman to muscle into my life and take control. Bigger, larger, and/or taller (and stronger) preferred! AFAB friendly.
M 32, located in North Carolina, white, 5'10" tall, lightly chubby, black hair, glasses, 8.5" uncut. Extremely submissive but have never been dommed before at all. Complete newbie to this sort of thing but I know what I want and how I feel about things so I feel like I can at least put this out there and seek the right person. Prefer something long term, monogamous, no cucking. Enjoy CNC, milking, breast play, lactation, physical shows of force and strength, and being given orders and made to obey within ethical limits. Not into abject cruelty, pain play, blood, scat, sounding, or anal, and caging is iffy and a likely no. Open to certain types of pee play but not consumption, and only if someone understands that I have no experience with it and may not like it once tried, so please respectfully understand. I prefer physically larger and substantial women, both in terms of muscularity and height and/or size and weight. Black women and white women preferred, open to other races.
Outside of fetish and kink play I'm a very nerdy and oddball person. I like anime, gaming, Star Trek, reading (mostly manga and comics because ofc lol), b-movies and unintentionally funny media, and all kinds of cool weird stuff that catches my eye. Photography is a passion of mine I am seldom able to explore, and I like to screw around with old video games and computers too. My head is pretty much always buried in a project somewhere and I love learning new things, which includes exploring the interests and passions of those I'm together with as well! I would hope that If I find someone who wants this as a long term situation they will be open to this part of me too.
Like most men I am a physical and visual person, and this translates to how in my mind the power a person holds is heavily correlated with the size, height, weight, and physical strength of the person who is dominating me. The larger and more overwhelming you are as a person in all aspects the more I will feel a unilateral need to more deeply and totally submit. Lots of unkempt body hair of all kinds on a woman is extremely arousing to me and find it an empowering example of a woman not afraid to be someone's superior in life although not a requirement. Large clitorises are also nice but likewise not a requirement. I quite literally worship breasts and the bigger they are the more overall power you will hold over me to an extreme degree. I literally feel properly insignificant in the presence of the right kind of person who blends this mix of physical size and power into their personality and isn't shy about it.
I'm very ready to submit to someone and explore how deep this goes. TPE, somno, and a great deal of other things are very much on the table. All I need is someone who isn't shy about wanting to own someone and is okay with me not really knowing all the ways this stuff works yet. Open to women and feminine-presenting AFAB individuals. Be open minded and looking to train and guide me, and know that I am relying on you to truly own and mold me into the man I need to be.
Posted Dec 7, 2025, 4:54 AM UTC