Why are the unnattractive fashion gays meaner compared to those who are attractive?

I've been surrounded na with a lot of gays and pansin ko lang na mas strong yung personality ng mga fashion gays. Okay lang naman yung confidence tbh, but naabot sa point na most of them ay puro judgemental to the looks nung mga strangers and everything, even though they're not necessarily within standards. Para silang mga straight guys na kala nila na every gay is into them.

On the other hand naman, yung mga conventionally attractive pa yung mga nicest people. Most of them are humble pa when you're complimenting them so