[27,F] my bf says, I don’t do anything
I am [27F], my fiance is [29M]. We have been dating for 8 years. I have wfh job, I manage our business 7 days a week. My fiance has to go to his job early in the morning and then come work at the business. I also cook at home mostly everyday. My bf likes to save money like crazy and I save money but not as vigorously. We have never been on a vacation in all those years and when I bring it up he says that we don’t have money to go anywhere. He wants to invest in businesses. I get that he wants to make a better future for us but 8 years and no vacation!! Recently, we got into argument about money, he says that I don’t do anything, he has to do everything. After some time he apologized and said that he shouldn’t have said it. Also, I think he has lost interest in me. There is no initiation from his side for hug, kiss or anything. He cares about me in other things. I don’t know what to think or do.
Posted Dec 7, 2025, 5:02 AM UTC