Do any of you struggle with people pleasing?

I’m a chronic people pleaser. Until I’m not. But I honestly don’t think it’s necessarily a negative trait. People pleasing is something we all already do to a certain extent anyway. Society would crumble without it. But have you ever met someone who tries to turn it into a weakness they can use against you? I feel like I’m just starting to realize this on a deeper level about my soon to be ex. Anyone relate?