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43 [M4F] #California #SoCal #LA #OC - Feeling a certain way again

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Getting that certain itch again. It’s hard to explain why. It’s something intangible. But I think you’ll understand.

Married with no children. There is a libido mismatch that has been gradual. The marriage is great but I feel like certain needs aren’t being met.

I have done this before. Exactly once. She wasn’t from here. It ended when she moved to another state.

I’m 6’0”, 195 pounds, with a shaved head and a dark groomed beard. I am a constant gym-goer who keeps himself healthy. Don’t expect me to have to abs though.

You:

  • 36 years of age or older. Also married in the same type of situation, if not, worse

  • local to at least semi-local. I would like to eventually meet

  • patient. I work a lot. I get a lot of downtime but I do work a lot

  • if we hit it off and things cool down because we are attending to our situations, we are able to just chat again without missing a beat

If you’d like to reach out, know that I like to use Telegram for eventual chat and pic exchange.

Posted Dec 7, 2025, 5:08 AM UTC

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