#NJ/NYC 30 [F4M]

Hoping that somewhere in this very populated corner of the northeast, I'll find someone to have conversations that light us both up, exchange comfort for the hard parts of life & marriage, and connect with through the mundane little intrigues of getting to know one another and eventually through the physical side of things too. Come ready with curiosity and enthusiasm - I have enough for both of us but the spark is better when we each have a match to strike. Slightly older men welcome, bespectacled and tattooed men extra welcome.

We are all lacking things but I tend to choose gratitude even while being deeply aware of what's 'missing' some days. If you're here because your wife doesn't give you a gold star for folding the laundry, or doesn't have the exact same sex drive she had before creating your children, please keep your obliviousness away from me. Lastly, tight OPSEC is top priority