I just wanted a baby

I always thought relationships were temporary so I ain’t waste my time dating in high school at 21 I got my heart broke sum crazy after that I just wanted a baby I didn’t care for the man so I had a baby now my bd tryna control me I didn’t really think this thru I just wish he go get another gf who will care about being a gf. Cuz all I care about is loving my baby and focusing on my career. (He cheated on me while i was pregnant) so im cool off him but he forcing us together cuz we gotta family.