AIO… well idk what I did to my roommate to make her hate me so much

🏠 roommate

So my bf and I just moved into a new apartment (4 bedrooms) a few months ago, and there was a girl living here already upstairs (we live in the downstairs part, the shared kitchen and shower are also upstairs). Let’s call her D. So D was nice to begin with, but she very quickly started implementing rules without consulting the other roommates, and even made signs that she taped up on the walls without telling us. When we tried to talk to her about it she was very defensive and mean, and started calling us dirty because we left some clean dishes to dry next to the sink in the kitchen. Our spaces are much cleaner than hers, she leaves the upstairs bathroom shower and sink and floors clogged with hair. This continued for a while with her having problems with small things we did “wrong” and being suuuper specific about her rules. Anyway it came to a head last night when I was in the kitchen and she came in and started moving my stuff so that she could cook (she has done this before but we tried to ignore it because we didn’t want to escalate the situation and she refused to speak English when we tried to talk to her, or just ignored us altogether) Later in the night I was vacuuming and as I went to put the vaccum away in the laundry room I accidentally knocked into one of the drying racks with the hose of the vaccum, and she Freaked out and grabbed and flipped the drying racks in a fit of rage. I was just like “woooooah” and she proceeded to point to her headphones like she couldn’t hear me? But it really freaked me out because it was the first physical thing she tried to break as far as I know. I told my landlord and he said we can all have a chat this week, but I don’t know if it will help because we have tried to talk to her before to no avail. Idk if this is an AIO or just needing advice but I don’t feel comfortable in this house anymore, not for my own safety as much as for my cat’s.

Posted Dec 7, 2025, 12:40 PM UTC

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