Got broken up with a few days ago

I got broken up with a few days ago and it felt like it came out of nowhere. I thought we were going to hang out like we normally do but then he sprung this on me. We ended things on good terms tho and it mostly boiled down to what he saw as an incompatibility due to his motivations. We had the full conversation. Anyways we established that we’re still chill tho. We didn’t say we should go no contact, but neither of us have contacted the other. I believe there isn’t really much need for contact rn and it’s best we both focus on ourselves and moving forwards.

We have some overlapping social circles due to what we study and we’ll probably continue bumping into each other because of this and because of our future careers. So we’ll definitely have to interact somewhere down the line which is why I wanted to establish whether we’re chill or not. But I also would like for us to be friends if that’s possible. Because neither of us really saw any faults in each other and we did love each other and saw each other as best friends. I feel like I do have the ability to be friends despite our previous relationship. But I don’t know how to actually get us to be friends. Idk if what I’m saying makes sense

Posted Dec 7, 2025, 12:43 PM UTC

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