32 [M4F] #NYC - Chill, motivated, and seeking a genuine connection

Im based in NYC, and looks wise I am Bi racial/East Asian, 5’7”, 140 pounds and in solid shape – I genuinely love staying active. I’m a pretty chill, zen guy with a few quirks, and I tend to find humor in almost anything. Even though I work in a fast-paced finance role, I’m usually the one cracking jokes in the middle of the chaos.

At my core, I’m intrinsically motivated. I like to learn for the sake of learning, went to a great university, and I get real joy out of problem-solving and thinking deeply about things. But I’m also very grounded and know how to enjoy the moment.

What I’m looking for is intentional:

If you’re career-driven, amazing – we can be a power couple, push each other, and build something that feels exciting and secure.

If you’re more creative or prefer a cozy, homemaking-leaning lifestyle, that works too. I don’t expect someone to “do it all” – I just want alignment, mutual support, and a partnership that feels easy.

Some things I love: • Skiing/snowboarding (winter sports are a big plus)

• Tennis, hiking, weekend trips

• A good speakeasy with great ambiance

• Reading next to a (Netflix) fireplace

• Finding little adventures in the city

If any of this resonates, would love to chat.