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Question/Discussion ❔

I (F30) have never been in a relationship before and I’m at a point where I’m actively trying to take the steps to make that happen, but more often than not, it feels like I’m just destined to end up alone.

I don’t know any Muslims my age or anyone who could set me up either.

I’ve tried Muzz and that was a massive failure. It felt like you could count on your hand the amount of normal people there were, and the ones I did end up speaking with always ghosted me the minute I told them my ethnic background (the site really has a massive anti-black issue).

It’s just been really disheartening to feel like people are so put off by something that I can’t change about myself that they’re not willing to want to get to know me.

I guess my question is what should I be doing at this point to find like-minded Muslims who aren’t flat-out prejudice?

Posted Dec 7, 2025, 12:50 PM UTC

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