Wedding band tattoo

I am getting a wedding band tattoo. Not discussing the concerns about fading and not sticking. What are some great responses to the negative comments I will recieve from the ppl who dont get it. Married 20 years, survived alot including her helping me recover from a ruptured brain aneurysm so not worried about her leaving me . And if im ever with someone after her then I must be like 90 so who cares.