Serious advice. How to approach goth women ?

Before everything I want to make a disclaimer, I do not degrade goth women to objects or a fetish, yes I absolutely admire and love their beauty, their vibe and everything take makes them inside out goth and I’m attracted to them a lot, but I see them as real normal human beings with personality and mental worth beyond looks. I do not a shallow admiration. I’m saying that as I don’t want to be seen like “a fetishizer that just wants a sexy goth gf” I am generally a person that seeks deeper genuine love, not just sex.

For some background I’m not goth but I would be open to learn on a deeper level about the subculture, I’m open to hear about that aspect as well.

To go to mean point of the post…

So, that’s a general thing but I feel super scared to speak to strangers especially women I’m into, I feel that even if I’m polite and even if I’m friendly with them (to be clear even if I don’t show any romance initially) I still fill they will judge me and often to perceive me as a “creep” or a person that sees them as a “fetish”, also like anyone they could be on a rush, or be with another person and ruin their conversation, or anything like that. I feel very isolated by that viewpoint. My main question is If I’m nice, is it a good idea to approach them politely (so to get to know her, share interests, alignments and things like that) without any romance; or they will still find it creepy ?. I really want to know.

Beyond approaching women on the street I have honestly no idea where to find goth women, they may tend go to some places, so let me know.

Thank you for helping me, best wishes to all.