Guys… asking for a friend 👀😭 because my girl is fighting for her life right now 😭😂

Sooo guys, 'my friend' (19F) has gotten herself into a mess of sorts and I need y’all to advise her before she loses her mind 😂😂

There’s this older guy (think 10+yrs) who’s a close friend of someone she knows. They’ve met kidogo before but never alone until recently. That day they hang out, there were shots, vibes, laughter, si you know👀.

She’s tipsy, he’s edging on tipsy, one thing leads to another, kidogo they’re making out. Nothing too crazy happens, but the vibes were vibing.

Then out of NOWHERE this man says, “I didn’t know this day would end with me in a relationship.” Like sir??? Relax??? 😭😭 She assumed it was the alcohol talking.

Fast forward… turns out it was not the alcohol talking 😭 This man lives FAAARRR btw, anyway he starts calling her daily, texting her, video calls at masaa random, even dropping “I love you” nikama ni free samples kwa soko 😭😭 Like SIR. You do NOT know her. Calm down.

She wasn’t taking it seriously at first, it was giving cute distraction, good vibes, nothing major. But nowwww she’s catching feelings kidogo and she HATES that because she knows this thing cannot end well 😮‍💨😂

And as if that’s not enough, the man has started acting… weird. At first he was consistent, now the energy is dipping, and she’s confused. One day he’s obsessed, next day he’s acting brand new.

Also he’s already talking about wanting to give her children and she’s like “??? Please be so serious 😭 I’m still someone’s child.”

She’s not even trying to date fr, she just wanted vibes, but now she’s confused, embarrassed, a bit annoyed, and kinda attached. She doesn’t know if he’s love bombing, future-faking, or she’s overthinking.

So. Yes, she knows she sounds stupid😭 Yes, she knows she’s the problem and the clown🤡 But to her this is a real situation and she needs advice before she loses her mind🫠😂

Ama she's simply losing the plot for no reason 😭😂😂

She's not used to playing kwa field ya field ya 'masenior' so her normal games don't work😭😭 she's so off her game gaddamit...HELPP!!!🥹