26 [M4F] #Europe. Looking for a new Long-Term online/IRL sub!
My name is Felix (not my real name). I’m 26 years old, from Germany, and I have over five years of experience in a Dominant role within a D/s dynamic. I’m 183 cm tall, with a regular build and slightly broader shoulders. I have brown hair and brown-green eyes.
What I’m Looking For I’m looking for a long-term dynamic with someone who genuinely wants to explore a D/s relationship with commitment, communication, and respect. I’m not interested in something casual or short-lived. Distance is not a problem for me— I’ve had partners outside of Germany before, including one in Italy whom I visited for three weeks in 2022. I am willing and able to travel if the connection is right.
Before entering any form of dynamic, we will take the time to get to know each other. Nothing will be rushed, and you are not expected to step into the role immediately. If you are interested, we will discuss expectations, boundaries, compatibility, and the dynamic in detail first, so you can decide if it is truly right for you.
Values, Respect & Boundaries Your appearance does not matter to me—whether you are thin, curvy, goth, emo, alternative, or anything else. I do not judge based on looks. What matters is mutual respect and the willingness to engage in the agreed-upon dynamic.
Respect is essential. Mocking or belittling each other—especially regarding appearance—is not tolerated. This dynamic should be empowering, not humiliating in a harmful way. Privacy is equally important: no photos, messages, or personal information will be shared or saved without clear consent. What happens within our dynamic stays between us.
Communication is key. We both have real lives outside the roles we may take on. I value simple, honest communication—letting each other know when we’re busy or unavailable. A quick message is enough, and everything else can be discussed when the time is right.
You should be aware that I'm not playing this game, I'm serious. We have lives outside of the D/S dynamic, and that's perfectly fine. I also have a job and don't always have time, which is why I'm talking about communication. It's not for nothing that people say communication is key! I want two things from you: one is loyalty, and the other is honesty! Unfortunately, I've noticed quite often that there are many people here who aren't serious and think they don't need to contact me again after getting to know each other for a week or two. That's not good! I'm a good Dom, I have a lot of experience, and I have a good sense of when to be gentle and when to be stricter. I want to get to know you, hear about your problems, give you advice, etc.
If this resonates with you and you would like to explore the possibility of building a dynamic together, feel free to reach out. We can discuss the details, expectations, boundaries, and see if we are a good match.
Posted Dec 7, 2025, 10:42 PM UTC