How do I tell if she likes me?
So I've had this friend since the start of this year, we are both sapphic, as she is bisexual and I am a lesbian. I am not looking for a relationship right now, but think I might like her and might try to have one once my mental health gets better. I am neurodivergent and so is she so this makes it kind of hard for each of us to tell. She has always been into niche interests, but one of her special interests is a genre of tv-show. She talks about it a lot, but I have never watched it. Recently, she's been trying to involve me in this special interest, talking about it more, and has even called me just so we can watch it together. She has been trying to get me into her special interests more, and usually when neurodivergent people do this, it shows they have a deep level of care for the person. What adds onto this, is that she spent the night at my house yesterday, and she had a desire to be physically close to me. She would lay her head on my shoulder or hug me, which I let her because I like physical affection. She even cuddled me the entire night and early morning. She has also showed that she is comfortable around me to be herself. I am not sure if she likes me or if she just feels very strong platonic feelings for me, and I want to know, but also don't want to rush things if she does.
(Please do not be ableist in the comments)
Posted Dec 7, 2025, 10:42 PM UTC