39 [M4F] #Germany - Looking for my submissive

You like it a little rougher? Pain, pleasure, Bondage, Toys, being used? Then you may just be exactly right here.

We can (and should) get to know each other online, find out if our kinks and personality match, but I am not looking to play online, I am strictly looking for IRL relations. Huge plus points if you are clever, bubbly, and can communicate well.

I enjoy, and practice, almost all kinds of BDSM. However I am not into "the lifestyle". I don't go to clubs, munches, etc.. I only want to play behind closed in 1on1 settings.

You are experienced? Great. You fairly are new to the BDSM world? Also Great. I love trying new things, toys, practices, you should enjoy experiencing new things.

If we are looking towards a long-term relationship, it will have to be monogamous. I don't share my toys :) For it to go that way, you should also have a romantic side to yourself, not just a submissive one. BDSM is an important part of my sexuality, but I am not looking for a 24/7 situation. I am looking for someone submissive, someone masochistic, but not for control over someone's life. Some decisions are best made together, no matter what the dynamic in the bedroom is.

Do's: (All optional) Impact play (Hands, Paddle, Crops, Flogger,...), Bondage (Ropes, Cuffs, Predicament, Medical restraints ...) Toys (Plugs, Dildos, Vibrators, Clamps, Pumps, ...) Humiliation (I love seeing you blush and squirm, but again not in a public way) Painful Things (Wax, Figging, Tunnel, ...) (Ab)use, Objectification, Orgasms (Enforcement, Denial, Torture), sensory deprivation, and many many mean and/or pleasurable things! The perfect mixture of pain and pleasure, feeling helpless and empowered, exposed and protected.

Dont's: Anything unhygenic, anything illegal, Cutting/Branding, age regression, actual injury.

See you soon!