Am I getting ghosted?

Hello everyone. I (f/ saggitarius) am seeing another saggitarius. We had a very good energy right from the start and i felt there was a lot of chemistry. He told me from the beginning that hes going to travel for at least 3 months and that hes not looking for anything serious, but also cant hook up with sb he has no emotional connection with. I was okay with that and told him that we can enjoy the remaining time together without planning a future. After 3 dates he postponed the 4th bc he was sick, then texted me 2 times to give me updates on his life and why hes busy. I never double texted or pressured him into something, i know us saggis dont like that. Fast forward last week he texted me that he would like to see me again before he leaves, i replied 1 day later with date suggestions. ever since i havent heard anything from him and im super confused. I know hes not a texter and takes time to reply but idk why he would text me to see me again and then „ghost“ me? He always initiated and texted first but i also showed him very clearly that im interested. I just dk what happened? Maybe some other saggis can help me with this one..? i know his life is super busy bc he literally leaves everything behind and maybe didnt expect to meet someone so compatible like me. Thanks for your help

Posted Dec 7, 2025, 10:45 PM UTC

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