This is not okay. NYT headline.

"With disorders like A.D.H.D. and anxiety rising, America's children are not well."

I've got ADHD and Autism. I'm "different". I have a pretty hard time with what I'm "supposed" to do in society, but I'm also one of the most respected people in my field. I'm really really good at what I do. That's entirely because of the way my brain works. Am I "not well"?