Feminism puts too much pressure on women

Women face so much pressure in this day and age. Social media telling them to be beautiful, and slim, and dress elegantly, and go to the gym to plump up that cake, and think for yourself but not in a way that doesn't fit in with society. Other women telling them they need to identify as a feminist or they are betraying their very femininity and all other women. Their own internal fears of inadequacy and guilt if they 'give in' or let their feminist flag waver. It's tough to be a woman, no matter if she's a proud and fearless feminist, or an empty headed bimbo for mens objectification.

So what's the solution to this?

You could ignore it and carry the load like Samwise Gamgee. But that sounds tiring and slightly sad to keep doing with no end in sight.

We can try to change society pressures people, and how people judge themselves and women in general. An honest goal, but it seems quite difficult!

My suggestion is that you unburden yourself of some of that pressure. Like a handy little release valve. Lay the guilt and the stress down off your shoulders, and relieve yourself without judgement. That can be a genuine conversation and venting about things that are going on in your life or in the world at large. Or maybe it's something more... stimulating. Explore the urge to submit. Embrace the taboo of becoming an obedient pet for a while. Satiate your curiosity.

So if you're tired of being a good feminist 24/7, you don't have to hold on anymore. Just pause for a little while, slide into my DMs and we can release that pressure together.