My wife has started to come around to the chastity idea, she said she would be willing to participate in it. So to kick off the weekend I decided to self lock on Friday, I wore it all day and got off work a few hours early.  When I got home for some reason I was super motivated to get to work. I wanted her to come home and simply sink into the couch and relax. 

Friday: I cleaned our bedroom fully, washed the sheets and comforter, I mopped all the floors while the laundry was going. Then on to the kitchen, deep cleaned the oven and range, washed all the countertops, it was perfect. I had dinner ready for when she got home, she ate, showered and was able to just relax, even though she kept saying she felt guilty that she wasn't home to partake in the chores. 

Saturday: I got up and finished miscellaneous items that needed doing, by the time she got up, coffee was made, her breakfast was ready, she was loving it. I decided to write her a letter. 

While dinner was cooking, I went into our room and she was trying to set up the door swing we got 6 months ago, I helped her get it set up. Then took it down and checked dinner. I came back to her sitting in it, now I was still locked. The key was in the closet, as I explained in my letter. (See attached pic).

She said I got the letter and I just can't with this cage, it's really weird. I ended up unlocking myself and we had epic sex. I know not everyone is into the same kinks. 
I'm just slightly bummed, I love the mentality I have when I'm locked, I feel motivated and devoted to her even more than I usually am.  Do I just drop it completely and accept she doesn't really share the kink?

Revisiting Chastity